family

this is the biggest factor that drive a person to change. in Islam, a father must let go of his daughter because of a duty of a woman to obey their husband first. i can still remember my father said he choked as in the akad nikah, a phrase sounded like this: "dengan ini, lepaslah segala TANGGUNGJAWAB saya ke atas anak saya..." and this was the akad for his first child. first child, not just first daughter.
as time goes by, it change if not trained people to be more responsible for anything in life. as im writing this post, it is the night of raya haji. and the house is full of my family. it's good to have everybody here, except my little brother, as he faces SPM and the hostel doesn't give break for this holiday.
the sights and sounds of everybody's at home making me felt touched, because i know, though my siblings r changing, they transform their good to be better, and trying to make good better from the best. plus, one thing they would never change, they still my family.